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Relationships are complicated; the union of a couple and their love life calls for compromises, patience & maturity-it’s a two-way thing- if you are in a relation then it should be dealt with care and love or else you will lose each other for good. Having different personalities and distinctive habits can create complexities for a couple and can lead to severe consequences if not curbed in time.
Expressing your emotions and making your partner believe that you love him/her is quintessential to prolong any relationship. If you stop expressing your feelings that means you are no longer fond of your partner and stir up a series of endless fights.
No one is perfect or a carbon copy of whatever you might have imagined regarding your Mr. right. We have to admit that we live in the real world that is far removed from the realm of our imagination. It’s not necessary that if you are married to the guy/girl you love, you are going to have a perfect hustle-free life. It’s always about how you treat your partner and how much prioritize him/her in your life routine.
Studying your partner’s mentality and acting according takes a lot of attention and concern. Living in an era where everyone is occupied, it is pivotal to take care of your partner and make him/her feel special. To understand your partners needs, you need to know what makes him happy, guilty, sad or anxious. To make any relationship work, you have to step out of your comfort zone and share everything with your lover to brush away misunderstandings and communication gap.
There is always a hope if you are foreseeing a break-up, you can make a U-turn and convert it all into a happy holiday at your favorite destination or take a trip down memory lane together, rediscovering the meaning and origin of your relation. If you are looking for ways to ignite the spark back in your relationship and do not want to lose him/her then must go for these following simple steps which would prove to be relationship saviors:
1. Make Him/Her Feel Secure:
It’s normal to indulge in a heated conversation and utter things you don’t mean. Convey it to your partner that you still love him/her no matter what and should consult a couple’s therapist to deal with the situation. Make him/her feel secure and safe around you and comfort him/her with kindness. This would eventually make your partner understand your true intentions and how much he/she is in love with you-as he/she is concerned about relationship.
2. A Long Love Gaze:
Have you seen how a mother gazes at her child with love? Believe it or not, it works wonders in making your relationship stronger & healthier. Gaze lovingly into her/his eyes to connect and talk for hours.
3. Knowing Past:
Every person has some dark sides and bitter experiences, you need to know what has shaped that person. Share what annoys you and what makes you feel numb so that your partner would not accentuate the matter in future. Tell them about your stress and problems you are facing to make your bond even stronger and for them to be more understanding to your situation.
4. Intimacy/Love Gestures:
You should know by your partner’s gestures that he/she wants to get close to you as it’s the best way to rekindle with your partner if feelings are floundering.
5. Long Talks/ Develop Understanding:
Discussing and long talks play a crucial role in nurturing your relationship. The key element of any relationship is understanding and compatibility.